Who should dominate the relationship?
Many visitors of Omegle and Chatroulette admit that in the process of establishing contact with the opposite sex, they prefer to play the leading role. The main percentage of such dominants, as a rule, is men. And this is not surprising – most of the strong half of humanity has always believed that a woman should know her place, and all the important life decisions should be made by the head of the family. But does this harm the relationship? Let’s try to figure it out!
The habit of imposing your habits and principles of life can cause many problems. Judge for yourself – you have never even met a person before, but already dictate the conditions to him. I must say that most modern people prefer equality in attitude and cannot stand it when their soulmates begin to show their superiority in all areas of life.
If you want your relationship with a chosen one to be truly strong and trusting, then try to learn to compromise in solving various everyday issues. Of course, you will not be able to completely get rid of some of your dominant habits, but try to at least become more delicate.
Looking into the history of mankind, you can find that the decisive vote almost always belonged to a man. In modern realities, much has changed, and women have also begun to assert their rights, but so far the stronger sex still dominates almost all spheres of human activity. With relationships, the main earner in the family, as a rule, is men, and it is he who makes the most responsible decisions and tries to make the woman accept any of his opinions.
In general, the problem of dominance in a relationship can have several solutions. The simplest thing is to distribute roles and assign to each partner the one that most closely matches his character. At the first stage of acquaintance, when you have not yet recognized each other properly and communicate exclusively in Omegle or Chatroulette, you can try the person you are talking to and learn how to relate to an attack on your life ideas and principles. If a person’s worldview is such that he recognizes his willingness to make some concessions, then you can try to “include an internal dominant” – in this case, nothing bad will surely happen.
Summing up, we can say that in trusting relationships the concept of dominance is practically absent. Both partners must make decisions together, make concessions to each other – only in this case there is a chance that your union will last for many years.